Dear LJ...

[bluegargantua]

Today, I got to explain to my mom "who gets to be the man" in lesbian relationships.

I hope I did right by my lesbian friends.

I also got to explain about "bears". "So you know those tough motorcycle guys you see at Sturgis? Yeah, gay."

I love my mother dearly, but her life in a monoculture has made her very strange to me.

later
Tom

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

1. Who decides what it means to be the man in a hetero relationship? My husband is the cook and I am the welder..

2. Those tough motorcycle guys are not ALL gay..

[bluegargantua]

1.) The guy is the man, duh. ;)

2.) I know, but anything to make her consider that gay people might be around is a good deal.